Perhaps your relationship has lost its shine. You still get on, but overall it feels pretty stale.
Fighting that changes nothing
Bickering and contempt are usually destructive and create a downward spiral that is hard to break.
Affairs (sexual or emotional)
The pain, loss of confidence and trust can make recovery a daunting prospect.
A lack or absence of pleasurable sex often makes it hard to feel close to a partner.
Life can throw so many obstacles at us that put a real strain on what might otherwise be a great relationship.
Relationship therapy is not about persuading you to stay together whatever the circumstances, and can be invaluable.
Most relationships have difficulties of some kind at some point.
Relationship therapy can be an effective way of bringing about positive change.
Pam is accredited by the UK Council for Psychotherapy and the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists. This means that she abides by their codes of ethics and good practice. She holds Relate's Certificate in Couple Counselling, a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual Therapy (University of Hull) and an MSc in Relationship Therapy (University of Hull). She has been in practice since 2001.
Pam Henderson is an accredited and experienced psychotherapist specialising in relationship therapy.